Child Psych Podcast Episode #172

In a recent conversation on the Child Psych Podcast with Constable Stephanie Bosch and Constable Scott Sterling from the ALERT Internet Child Exploitation (ICE) Unit, we discussed emerging trends in online exploitation and what parents need to know to keep their children safe.

A growing concern in the digital world is what experts call commodified sexual interactions. This refers to situations where sexualized images are treated as something that can be bought or sold online. Because this type of content has become more normalized in parts of online culture, offenders are increasingly approaching youth and framing requests for images as a simple transaction.

In some cases, young people may be offered money, gift cards, gaming credits, food deliveries, or other items in exchange for images or videos. These interactions can happen quickly, or they may develop slowly through grooming, where someone builds trust with a child before making requests.

Another related issue is coerced image sharing, which can occur through peer pressure in romantic relationships or through manipulation by strangers online. While commodified sexual interactions and coerced image sharing are different, they can quickly become connected. If a child shares or sells an image once, the person receiving it may use that image as leverage to pressure them into continuing the behaviour.

What Parents Need to Know

One of the most important protective steps parents can take is creating a home environment where children feel safe talking about difficult online experiences.

Children are far more likely to seek help if they know their parents will respond with support rather than punishment. A powerful message parents can share is simple:
“If something happens online, I will help you.”

Parents can also help by talking openly about online pressure and helping children recognize manipulation or requests that make them uncomfortable. These conversations should happen regularly and evolve as children grow and begin navigating more independent digital spaces.

What to Do if Something Happens

If a child shares that they have been pressured for images or have already sent one, staying calm and supportive is critical.

Experts recommend a few key steps:

• • Stop communication immediately with the person involved
  • Do not delete messages or images, as they may be important for reporting

• Report the incident to police or appropriate reporting services
• Seek support from local counseling or victim support organizations if needed

Most importantly, reassure children that they are not alone and that the situation can be addressed together. When families build strong communication and trust around digital experiences, children are far more likely to reach out for help when they need it most.