Child Psych Podcast Episode #186

Dr. Kim Van Dusen is a licensed marriage and family therapist, registered play therapist, speaker, and author of Parenting Through Play. With over two decades of experience supporting children and families, Dr. Kim specializes in helping parents navigate challenging behaviors through connection, communication, and play-based parenting strategies. Her work combines evidence-based approaches with practical tools that parents can use immediately at home.

Introduction to the Conversation

Many parents find themselves stuck in cycles of power struggles, repeated reminders, consequences, and frustration. When traditional discipline strategies stop working, it can leave families feeling disconnected and exhausted.

In this episode of The Child Psych Podcast, we explore a different approach: using play as a powerful parenting tool. Dr. Kim explains why play is not simply something children enjoy—it is one of the primary ways they communicate, connect, learn, and regulate their emotions. By understanding play as a child’s language, parents can create more cooperation, reduce conflict, and strengthen their relationship with their children.

What We Discuss in This Episode

This conversation explores the science and practical application of play-based parenting. Dr. Kim shares how playful connection can help reduce tantrums, ease transitions, improve cooperation with chores, and make everyday parenting challenges feel less stressful.

We discuss why children often respond better to playful engagement than lectures or punishment, how play supports emotional regulation, and why connection is often the missing ingredient behind challenging behavior. The episode is filled with simple, realistic examples that parents can immediately apply to daily routines, bedtime struggles, transitions, and family responsibilities.

What You’ll Learn

• Why play is one of the most effective tools for connection and behavior change
• How playful parenting can reduce power struggles and increase cooperation
• Practical strategies for transitions, chores, bedtime routines, and emotional regulation
• Why connection and attachment are essential foundations for discipline
• How to use humor, novelty, and playfulness to lower stress and strengthen relationships

Who This Episode Is For

This episode is ideal for parents, caregivers, educators, therapists, and anyone supporting children’s emotional development. Whether you are navigating tantrums, bedtime battles, resistance to chores, or everyday parenting stress, this conversation offers practical, evidence-informed strategies to help children feel more connected, regulated, and cooperative. It is especially valuable for those looking for positive parenting approaches that strengthen relationships while supporting healthy child development and emotional well-being.